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jimmy mac · Joined: 12 May 2008 Posts: 188 Location: England

Hi people

just thought i would start a new topic as the goodbye for now one is getting a little off topic as we are now talking about a completly diffrent thing. Firstly i would like to thank yogi for handing on my email to dr bow as would like to chat to her over msn and also need you to do me a favor please yogi...... There is a girl who works annajets called NING she is a small girl and a great dancer well my mate wants her email too if you could get it off her that would be great.... tell her sam was asking for it the one who had a party at annajets (see pic below if your too pissed to read the name tags lol).

I read your post yogi regarding this new flame you seem to have stumbled upon and hope it all turns out ok. Laughing

ok im going to get back to work now and fix some cornflake making machines lol..

take care and keep it up to date when you have time of course Wink

jim

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Yogi · Joined: 04 Apr 2008 Posts: 183 Location: England

Hi Jim,
Yes Jimmy I passed on your email to Meaw , for her to give to Bow and I will follow this up in the next few days by seeing Bow personally just to check that she did receive it .
As for Sam , sure I will try and obtain Nings email address ( assuming she as one of course ) but that will be tomorrow when I am there as my girl is taking me to Jomtien tonight ( never been myself ) and I thought it would make a change from walking street etc .

To be honest Jim its rather scary at times with her as she as a Jekyll and hyde personality and it can flare up when she dwells on the past . Her eyes are full of hatred when this happens as she was bullied and intimidated by a guy nearly twice her age .......... basically he was a control freak who would not let her express herself with red lipstick or by dancing as he knew that men oggled her . Yet she as a good heart and is sweet but at times I see pure 100 % hatred towards men , but is honest and open with me which I like . She wants to leave her job and is always looking at different types of employment like hairdressing and hotel work . I am trying my best to be good for her and I hope that further down the line she can move on and give a guy a chance .
Last night she had run up a 3000 baht bar bill before she was too blathered to keep her eyes open , but the drinking only started at 19.30 and by 22.30 she was back in my hotel room spark out . Today she woke up full of remorse and ashamed of herself , tonight will be steady in comparison as I will keep the pace slower .
Some people will think that I should have done more to stop her drinking so heavily , but the truth is she had no food all day ( empty stomach ) and mixed thai whisky , vodka lipo , Tequila and bailleys ......... not very clever . But I also suspect that the bar owners were quite content to let her pad out the bill as Pattaya is relatively quite at the moment and she was happy to keep me at her bar to keep her bosses happy . Like I have said previously its like being on a roller coaster with her one minute its great the next minute very scary ......... watch this space .. will update as holiday progresses .

regards yogi
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MekongMike · Joined: 07 Apr 2008 Posts: 299 Location: Germany

Hi Yogi !
I´m glad to read that you are doing well overthere... in the name of cultural research and fun... lol !
About your Miss Jeckyll & Hide... well, I believe that she is a nice woman... but nevertheless you should be careful.
Who knows how her "flashbacks" can change her, in case it comes to a little misunderstanding between you and her ( ...like it happens in all relationships from time to time ) !?
I guess that an angry Thai girl can be very dangerous... But I think you are not staying long enough in Thailand and that you have to travel home before any problems start.
To be honest... I wish you all the best... for both of you... But you know that I´m a realistic thinking man ( ...but not a pessimist !).
That´s why I can´t hold myself back from expressing what I think.

It´s cold and dark here in Germany and I don´t think that it is much better in the UK.
And we hear bad news from Thailand in TV and radio: The protesters have reached Suvarnabhumi...
Hope the situation will get better soon.
Against my collegues and friends pessimistic views on the situation, all this wouldn´t hold me back from going on travel.
Nevertheless, I hope that it will be over in coming March.
I´m not scared... I just don´t like trouble.
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Yogi · Joined: 04 Apr 2008 Posts: 183 Location: England

Hi Guys ...... I went to A.J last night but did not see either Bow or Ning unfortunately , but I will be back in a few days to confirm everything .
Well Peter was there this time and he was ROCKING as usual ......... more than most of the girls , in fact watching Peter getting on down is better than watching the girls do there stuff Laughing

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Keep up the good work Peter !!!.

Has for my fling well it is still going strong and despite a flare up the other night when she went off the edge ( 6 inches from my face ) all is well , but I never keep anything with sharp edges etc in the room ( for obvious reasons ) .
In the bedroom she is really sweet and affectionate and does nt take no for an answer ( sweet eh !!! ) and I am convinced that she is either trying to kill me in a drunken rage ( sometimes sober ) or she is going to kill me in the sack, and when I complain she says to me why do you always complain once the deed as been done Twisted Evil

hahahaha !!!!! . Yes you are right I am not a good man Laughing

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Mike as for the issues at BKK International ( also spread to Don Mueang now ) there are no issues down here in Pattaya , but who knows how long this will all last as eventually I will have to go home ( unfortunately ) . With each passing day the loss of revenues at BKK International will probably result in something happening as the airport is losing big bucks each day it is closed .

Regards yogi

p.s
Mike although I have strong feelings for her I don t think I have a long term future with her , at times I think that it would be a good thing ............ but then I always remember those wild rages ........ but when she is good ....... she is good !!!! .
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MekongMike · Joined: 07 Apr 2008 Posts: 299 Location: Germany

There once was a time I thought that I only get the problem girls, who cry their sorrows out on my shoulder or who turn out to be MissMoodys or MissAngrys after some time.
And I was wondering if their attitudes were caused by me and my great charisma of being an understanding and protective person... lol !
Interesting to read here, that I´m not the only one.
I guess, Yogi and I are just the calm and down-to-earth type of men some girls are looking for.
I don´t want to play Daddy for any girl... but isn´t it nice to make such experiences ?

Oh... once again I drift away in dreams of an unreal life, like a russty airline captain has said here yesterday.
Okay, it´s all an illusion !
But I love it !!!
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jimmy mac · Joined: 12 May 2008 Posts: 188 Location: England

cheers for that follow up vist yogi as sometimes infomation can get lost along the translation waves ect.... Im Actually in the process of getting bows number off the girl who originally wouldnt give it to me but thats a working progress lol. Did you like it down at jomtiem anyway? its a nice change when it gets a bit too much in pattaya i thought anyway. good to here you having a nice time with your lady of choice because it makes your holiday so much better when you meet a diamond girl but becomes all that bit harder to say goodbye when your going home. And for the flare ups i think thats the same with most thai girls just some more than others and with diffrent reasons for going off the rails,but no bodys perfect i suppose.

right going for a drink with a few mates take it easy yogi and enjoy it.

jim

P.s good comment about the illusion mike
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Yogi · Joined: 04 Apr 2008 Posts: 183 Location: England

Hi Guys . My trip to Jomtien went well and it was a welcome change of pace and this was followed up with another visit last night and makes the chaos and anarchy of walking street a distant memory .
Okay , as for my girl she is 32 and is a diamond and as a good heart and does not rely on me to pay for everything under the sun , in fact she is quite frugal , she does her own laundry , make up and hair etc etc . The problems are mainly related to communication as her scant english leaves a lot to be desired ( much better than my Thai obviously ) and leaves to constant issues , but I am not dealing with a western girl and these issues were bound to happen . Her english is fractured and unfortunately based around swearing which was hurled at her by a vile control freak , who lauded over her by ringing the bell in the bar and tipping heavily ( a good man ...a big man ) , but would not give her 100 baht for food . She mis trusts men and getting her to confide in me has been difficult , but I am finally winning her over and the tantrums and stroppy behaviour are getting less by the day . I have put her in her place on two occassions recently and read the riot act to her and now issues are finally reducing and improving for the both of us . This afternoon she has told me that when I go home she is more than likely to go back to her family home in Eastern Thailand ( can t say where ) and when I come back in March she wants to see me . Okay its easy to say that she is spinning a yarn here and I am being sucked into something scary ...we have all heard the stories of gullible men sending a kings ransom every month ........... THIS WILL NOT HAPPEN IN MY CASE ...I have told her this , but strangely she as said that she can look after herself Rolling Eyes

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I was told one story by my girl and I suppose is typical of what can and does happen here in Thailand . She knows a 21 year old girl who is being sent money by a foreigner ( 55 ) every week ........... YES EVERY WEEK HE SENDS 15.000 TO 16.000 BAHT to his girl , what a mug , she is apparently with a different guy everynight and as money to burn ( by thai standards ) and lavishes money on herself ...... talk about cold hearted eh !!! .

regards yogi

p.s Jim I will be back at AJ shortly ....will try again .
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Yogi · Joined: 04 Apr 2008 Posts: 183 Location: England

Hi Guys....... well this morning I decided to get my life and sanity back as my Miss Jekyll and Hyde as been shown the door for the last time .
Although I have said she was a good girl and decent ( still stand by that ) she would get all moody really , really quickly and as I am on holiday I decided that I could no longer " take care " of her flare ups and mood swings .
Mike talked about ladies with mixed personalities , one minute they were great , the next minute they went all moody , no Mike its not just you who pulls these ladies. I think the more you stay with one lady , the more they try it on and swing the lead hoping to cut a better deal for themselves . Peter told me you can t save the world , yeah I suppose thats true and to be honest I don t think its worth trying to rehabilitate a lady who as tunnel vision and cannot see the big picture ....its either there way or the highway . Thai ladies do have a good nature , but as much as we try to get them to come around to our way of thinking , the harder they try to get you to modify your personality and nature to fit in thai style . It has been rewarding , but I am unsure at present If I would do the same again , if the opportunity arose, as at the end I was miserable and it was getting me down . I do think that she wanted me to know and accept everything thai in a crash course ( one week ) , but I am wiser for the experience and I will move on .......... don t get me wrong I cannot become the next Jimmy king butterfly Mac overnight and at my age I don t really want to try Laughing

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Has it is a sunday afternoon and I am on my own , I have decided to check out a few things ........lets see Jim you did say soi 6 was north on second road did nt you Laughing

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regards yogi
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jimmy mac · Joined: 12 May 2008 Posts: 188 Location: England

good for you yogi m8, youve waited for this holiday and dont need someone to mess it up for you. Looks like your taking a leaf out of my book and being a gentleman of leisure Wink

yeah just keep walking in that north direction and you will soon stumble upon sin city A.K.A soi 6 Twisted Evil

. Ive had some girls like that before that flare up and have split personalities, quite a few actually now i think about it, maybe because i do flit from girl to girl but i always do it without hurting the girls and making them loose face infront of her friends, thats just out of order. Gentlemen of leisure i like to call myself lol and enjoy all the spoils pattaya has to offer.

jim
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MekongMike · Joined: 07 Apr 2008 Posts: 299 Location: Germany

Well, dear Yogi, I know it´s hard... but this was the best you could do, if she had turned out to be really that moody.
But what if, she comes back to you... crying ?
What if she has already spotted you in Soi 6 and turns out to be angry and starts to make some trouble on the street ?
Don´t care about it, I say !
A long time ago, I had asked myself similar questions... and nothing happened.
Love is a battlefield... But was it really true love that drove you to be together with her for a long time ?
I never say the "L" word ( love ) to any Thai lady again... There is another "L" word I use frequently whilst being together with a girl for a longer period of time:
"like"... I say: "I like you !"
Enjoy the rest of your holidays, Yogi !
And check your flight... Suvarnabhumi and Don Muaeng are still closed, and it doesn´t looks like the situation will get better soon.

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